The Reigning Woman

Identity. Self-definition. Who are you? “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2. Still about the feeling of being stuck!!! As you yearn to evolve, the dilema is not knowing what you are evolving out of to what you are becoming. From our earlier discussions, you are in dilema as to whether you are a caterpillar wishing to become a butterfly, you wonder whether you are in the pit or potiopher's house. And this dilema can keep your journey of evolving more streneous, and therefore, today I want to invite you to a journey of self discovery, self definition, finding you....IDENTITY!!! Do you know what you are evolving out of—and, more importantly,  who you are becoming? The journey of evolution begins with a very important question: Who are am I? Not who am I as someone's wife. Not who am I as someone's mother. Not who am I according to my qualifications, my career, my family, my social standing or my accompli...

So, last week you decided you were going to evolve. You were tired of feeling stuck. Tired of repeating the same patterns. Tired of watching life happen around you while knowing there was another version of you somewhere inside—waiting to emerge. You said,  “Something has to change.” And perhaps you entered this week expecting to feel different. More disciplined. More confident. More organised. More prayerful. More courageous. And true to this promise to yourself, the weekend might have been promising. It began with a strong resolve within you, I am changing, I am moving, I am evolving, its the season, its the time. Thank you Sumpie for this, this is really what I need ; But instead? Monday came with its usual pressures. Tuesday reminded you of an old habit you thought you were ready to leave behind. By Wednesday, you were questioning whether anything was really changing at all. And now you are looking at yourself thinking: “Maybe I am not making progress.” But what if you are? Wha...